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In Reply to: True. Plus, why do these comparisons of male vs female full frontal nudity always overlook this fine distinction.... posted by Dalton on February 12, 2004 at 20:55:59:
Here be dragons!Good grief, I gotta wonder about your relationships with women...
As for male nudity...
A man secure enough to be *emotionally* open (i.e. "vulnerable") can be very sexy. And yes...we like to look. Of course we do! A nice male body, all the male body, can be very sexy and pleasing to look at, on screen or otherwise. You think any pleasure women derive from looking at a nude male form comes from picturing "having it over" a man or "humiliating" him?????? That's sick. Worse, it's no *fun*.
Do you really think women don't notice those lovely, round, manly asses in business suits, footbal unis and tight jeans??? The boxes on male dancers? You think we're only looking at Johnny Depp's or Viggo Mortensen's *eyes*????? You don't think we want to see the whole monty? Ever?
I grant you, any old male dude just letting the family jewels hang out isn't necessarily erotic or appealing. (I've had quite enough Of Mr. Keitel, thank you.) Context is everything. I won't disagree that men and women react differently to visual sexual stimuli. But you are quite mistaken in saying women only rarely like make nudity in film.
Equality? Done right, hell yeah we like it. But not only do we almost never get it, it's usually not well done.
Bah, humbug.
Follow Ups:
- Full frontal nudity is not the same for males and females. A female can depicted as fully nude from the front without displaying her genitalia. The same can't be said for males. Males characters in films or TV are depicted as being fully nude just as often (maybe even more frequently, and certainly more often in humiliating or comic situations) as females.- As far as I know, there is no general clamoring among the female movie-going population (with certain exceptions, apparently) to view Viggo Mortensen's scrotum in a major feature film. I admit, I might be wrong about this.
- As far as I can tell from reading the article, it's primarily feminists (talking about "male domination", etc.) who are disconcerted by the relative lack of depictions of male full frontal nudity compared to female full frontal nudity. See my first point for why I believe this is a false concern. I have trouble believing that these people really desire to view Viggo Mortensen's scrotum either. Rather, they see it as a matter of sexual politics.
Again, look at the Yoko Ono quote that was used: "I wonder why men get serious at all. They have this delicate, long thing hanging outside their bodies which goes up and down by its own will. If I were a man I would always be laughing at myself." It's not a matter to those who are complaining that they don't get to see and "admire" attractive men's genitalia in movies. They believe that women are being "demeaned" by being shown fully nude (in some cases this is true, in others not) and want more male full frontal nudity to "balance the score" by "demeaning" men in the same way.
So, I think this "lack" of male full frontal nudity (and to clarify, we're talking about graphic depictions of genitalia, not bare buns) in movies is not a valid concern. It's not a matter of a "male-dominated" film industry exploiting women while not giving women what they want. It's not a matter of homophobic men refusing to tolerate it. If women truly wanted more male genitalia on display, it would be available. But, at least in non-pornographic movies, women don't seem to want it. They are content with allusions to full nudity, just as men don't want (and don't get) gynecological views of female genitalia in these movies. In fact, although there have been many instances of full male nudity, the closest we ever got to the gyno-view in a wide-release non-pornographic movie is the infamous Sharon Stone leg-crossing scene in "Basic Instinct". This caused such a stir that it is still parodied frequently today.
As I mentioned elsewhere, look at My Wife is an Artist for the great amount of full male frontal - maybe 20 good detailed shots.
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